To My Unlived Birth Identity

“Hello Darkness, my old friend

I’ve come to talk to you again…”

Paul Simon

Dear Jamie,

for how else shall

I address you?

You, who’ve lived

enshadowed in me

A name, sealed away

by state authority

and memory

Only a legal error

informs me of you

How has it been

this life lived through

dream and poetry?

Have I honored you

the way you hoped?

For I, too, had a name

smothered out

and that one, Francis,

comes closest to touching

the essence of you

All we can both do

is carry on

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20 responses to “To My Unlived Birth Identity”

  1. Gillena Cox Avatar
    Gillena Cox

    Ah that name thing. The name that’s second on my birthpaper is the name i’ve lived through life as my first called and signed name😊Two christian names but i only use one.

    Much🖤love

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    1. Frank J. Tassone Avatar

      Thanks, Gillena! 😀

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  2. Eugi Avatar

    Such a lovely piece and beautifully written, Frank.

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      1. Eugi Avatar

        You’re most welcome, Frank. Happy Holidays!

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  3. Yvonne Osborne Avatar

    The importance of a name….what shall I call you. A legal error, a name smothered out. Seems much hidden between the lines.

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    1. Frank J. Tassone Avatar

      Indeed… 😉

      Thanks!

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  4. petrujviljoen Avatar

    Hi Jamie and Francis. Methinks Frank did a good job integrating. Much love.

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    1. Frank J. Tassone Avatar

      😆 Thanks , Petra! 😀

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  5. Björn Rudberg (brudberg) Avatar

    Names, those we are given and those we chose, maybe we should all chose our own names instead.

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    1. Frank J. Tassone Avatar

      Maybe we should. Thanks, Bjorn! 😀

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  6. memadtwo Avatar

    We spend our lives growing into our names, both the ones we are given and the ones we give ourselves. (K)

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    1. Frank J. Tassone Avatar

      Yes, we do. Thank you! 😀

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  7. dorahak Avatar

    You capture how difficult it is to reconcile two names, one unlived, the other yet being lived, both in their ways enigmas. It must have been difficult finding out through chance, a “legal error.” Yet what’s in a name, birth name or adopted, when the essence is the same with its poignant demand, “Have I honored you/the way you hoped?”

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    1. Frank J. Tassone Avatar

      Well said, Dora. Thank you! 😀

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  8. poetisatinta Avatar

    beautifully written 🙌

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  9. msjadeli Avatar

    Frank, I remember you writing about your accidental discovery a few years ago. Poignant letter to that other you.

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      1. msjadeli Avatar

        Frank, you are welcome.

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  10. Frewin55 Avatar
    Frewin55

    Even without knowing the full story, and having to read between the lines, this is a very powerful and heartfelt missive, Frank…

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